Merry Christmas From the Bryants

2011 Has been a crazy year for us as I'm sure it has been for many people. Though we have had alot of stress and uncertainty, we have also learned alot about faith, trust, and God's provision. No matter what happens we are commanded to trust God and He has always been faithful to us. This is not always easy to do but it is incredibly enriching to your relationship with God to push forward and continue pursuing Him. There is always much to be thankful for.

Here's a little recap of the past year - in bullet form because writing about it would take FOREVER....

Oct 2010 -
Jared lost his job. We were glad to be moving on but that does not diminish the stress it caused our family. We were very uncertain about our future.

Nov 2010 - Jan 2011 -
Jared picked up some odds and ends contract work as well as worship leading to bring in some cash.

Feb 2011 -
Jackson and Jaden turned FOUR!
We had to put our dog, Bob, to sleep. SOOOO hard but we knew it was the right thing to do.
We made the decision to move across the country to North Carolina (where Rachel grew up and where we met) but had no idea how or when that would happen.
In order to make the move possible we began selling off a HUGE amount of our stuff
We listed our house for sale

April 2011 -
We decided we needed to just go ahead and move and the date would be May 9
Packing, Packing, Packing, researching moving companies, getting details together, and trying to figure out where we would live

May -
Moved to NC (our house in Washington still had not sold)
Renting out our house in Washington became a possibility. Not really what we wanted to do but it seemed like the best option given our current situation.

June -
Visited my brother and his family in Charlotte, NC (a few hours from where we were living)
I (Rachel) got a job working from home part time that is PERFECT for my life and schedule. It does create a little stress for me and makes it harder to balance my schedule and get things done - but it very much needed and helpful in our current situation

July - Aug -
Really struggled with what God wants us to be doing and how we needed to best proceed in life
Jared was in Atlanta for a week pursuing an income possibility in ministry (that didn't really pan out the way we needed it to)
Our renters stopped paying us (due to a job loss supposedly)and made a plan for repayment all due at the end of Sept. We didn't feel like we had any other option.

Sept -
Jared's brother and sister came to visit for a week. We did lots of fun things including going to the beach (a REAL beach ;) )
Kylie turned TWO!
Jared starting working selling a form of insurance. Which he hated but everyone kept trying to get him to sell insurance so he thought he should try to give it a go. This lasted a couple weeks maybe and then....
Jared is offered a job in Charlotte (3 hours from where we were currently living). Seems to be a good job with benefits for our whole family. But we really didn't want to move. Then a couple days later...
Through a series of strange circumstances Jared is offered a job in Raleigh, NC (where we were living). It was a week of negotiations and in the end we knew that job probably wasn't right for him. So 2 days later....

Oct - Nov
Jared started work in Charlotte. We have one car so he would leave Sunday night and take our only car down, stay with a variety of wonderful people and come back Friday night leaving me with no car all week by myself with the kids. It was hard but went alot more smoothly than it could have. We could walk to the store if needed. My parents were available to help if we needed and get the kids to Awana as well as usually getting us out of the house once a week.
We thought we would never get to move. Our landlord wanted a huge amount of money to break the lease (which we had 7 months left on) plus, of course moving expenses.
We were blessed with an AMAZING gift that would allow our family to move and in God's perfect timing we found a GREAT house to rent that was far more wonderful than anything we hoped or asked God for - for a great price.
Our renters told us they filed bankruptcy (which they were lying about) and basically communicated they had no intention of leaving our home but wanted to pay us about half rent and wouldn't be paying us what they already owed. We gave them a pay or vacate and they did not comply. I will spare you all the ridiculous details but we ended up having to hire a lawyer to get them out. They were out mid-Nov without TOO much damage to our home and THEN they filed bankruptcy - so they don't have to pay us the thousands they owe us.
Our house goes up for sale AGAIN (with the help of many wonderful people)
Thanksgiving weekend we came and spent the day with my brother and his family as well as Rachel's parents and my brother's in-laws. Then we came back to Raleigh and loaded a truck - mostly by ourselves which was super hard - but we DID get some help with heavy things and last minute details which we are SO thankful for.
We move to our new place and get a bunch of help moving in (all these people we had met in Bellingham too - how weird is that?)

December -
We get completely settled in to our house
We prepare for Christmas
Rachel and the kids get a very strange sickness that knocks us out for a week. Thankfully Jared never got it and we are all better now.
We will spend Christmas ourselves here at home and Rachel's parents will come for a couple days immediately after.


There you have it. Jared's job is going just fine. It's not a good time of year for sales so it is hard to judge. He is at the top of his group that got hired together and already met his quota through Feb. However, the pressure is still on because he needs to make quite a bit more income - which he should be able to do - we just have to be patient and continue to trust God to provide.

The kids are doing well but we can see the struggle they've had with all the insanity this year. We are praying they feel settled soon and to make some friends - I'm so thankful they have each other.

We have been so incredibly blessed by so many people this year and there is no way we can ever thank them enough. It is humbling to watch people minister to us out of their love for God and us as well.

When Jared lost his job I would have told you in just a few weeks time we would no longer be able to pay our long list of bills. Then something would happen and we would realize we could probably make it through January. Then it was April...then June... Then August... and so on and so on. God has been so faithful to provide for us and it is so amazing to see!

In 2012 we will have 2 kindergardeners and start the world of school!

Some prayer needs for us would be that our house sells quickly, we will continue to trust God for our needs and obligations, for Jared to feel settled in his current job, for us to find a GREAT church and for all of us to make some friends!

We love you all and would love to hear from you and any prayer needs you may have.

You can keep up with us here at the blog to see what we are up to throughout the year - 2011 was a little hard to keep up with it all but I will hopefully do better in 2012!

Have a wonderful Christmas!

Love, Rachel, Jared, Jackson, Jaden, and Kylie

Lunch in our finally unpacked kitchen

Jackson on the moving truck

a Little Update

I am still trying to fix posting to the blog from my phone. It keeps messing up and I don't know why.
Here's a quick update...
Jared started his new job at the beginning of October, trained for a month and is now in the full swing of regular work. He's doing well but this is a harder time of year to reach people on the phone. We are hoping it all starts coming together to be more consistant after the holidays. Please pray the sales start rolling in :)for 2 months Jared has left us home for the week with no car while he traveled to Charlotte and stayed with a variety of wonderful people. My parents helped with transportation to Awana and usually got us out of the house once a week or so.
We were feeling like we would not be able to afford to move to Charlotte to join him for a number of reasons - the main one being the fee for breaking our rental contract here. We were incredibly blessed with a wonderful, undeserved gift that is allowing us to make this happen. We a so thankful! We found a GREAT place not too far from Jared's work and got a great deal. It is very spacious with a huge fenced yard that even has little play set in it! When we were asking the boys a while back what they were hoping for they said a fenced yard and a play set. This made me sad because fewer yards are fenced here and finding something with these specifications and something we could afford was unlikely. It touches my heart that God cared about the things my kids cared about and we feel so blessed! We are moving the weekend of Thanksgiving and are looking forward to getting started with our new life.
I have mentioned before that we rented out our house in WA. Not our top choice but it presented itself at the last minute and we were feeling stuck. They moved in June 1, paid their deposit, June, July, and part of August and then we never saw another dime despite many promises. We gave them a pay or vacate notice which they did not comply with then telling us they had filed bankruptcy - but they had not. We ended up having to pay a lawyer who went through the process to the point where the sheriff posted a notice on their door to get out in 3 days or he would physically remove them. They got out quickly - moving just down the street.... They did end up filing bankruptcy which means they won't have to pay us the thousands of dollars they owe us - but we are just glad at this point that they are out. There is definitely some damage inside but it could have been much worse. Some wonderful people went over and cleaned it and took care of the yard (which included picking up literally 5gallons of dog poop). The house should go on the market this week. What a whirlwind!
Some things to pray for...
That Jared will be making sales so we can get our lives back together
That our house will sell fast. I mean SUPER fast! Not sure what the future holds as far as making payments, etc
That our transition will be smooth moving to Charlotte
That we will find a good church quickly
That God will continue to provide for us
That we will have peace and trust God with whatever happens
Thanks for your prayers and we will keep you posted!

come back and physically remove them. They got out in the nick of time and moved right down the stt

A little Update

Jared just finished training at his job and is begining regular work this week. Pray that he will make sales and will not be discouraged. The close rate in this type of work is WAY different than anything he's used to.
Our renters have decided not to pay us and not to move out. We were forced to hire a lawyer and begun a legal eviction process. It is ridiculous. Though we aren't responding to them our renters continue to contact us and treat us like we are being "unchristian" in not allowing them to still live there and requesting they continue to live there while paying us a significantly reduced rent. Yet even when the law has told them to get out - they don't. They told us they filed bankruptcy - but they did not (it's public record). We will see if they do before their court date this Friday. I can't believe people think it's ok to do that. I feel like my house is being stolen from me.
God continues to take care of us. We have been blessed with unexpected blessings that are getting us through.
Our van is holding out which is good. We are getting a couple repairs done.
We are hoping to move to Charlotte in the next month but we will see. We went down to Charlotte with Jared last week and got a feel for the area and were able to figure out where we do and don't want to live and what the costs are. We haven't found a place yet but can now more effectively search. The boys were able to play with several kids their age there and I could tell that was huge for them. It's been a long time...
Please pray that we will be encouraged and be able to get through the next few months and keep our sanity :) We will be listing our house for sale very soon. We wish it was listed now but having renters you can't get out of your house causes major problems so we want to get through the hearing this Friday first. So please pray it sells soon and that the renters can get out ASAP without the police having to be involved (which creates additional hassle for us)
I just discovered my mobile posting was disabled so hopefully now that that is fixed we can get to posting more regularly :)

Halloween

This was actually the first time we have done Halloween. We arent a big fan of it in general but think the little kids dressing up to get candy is super cute. We intended to go to a festival on sat but didn't make it. Since I'm here today with no car I decided to walk the kids to CVS and get a cheap bag of candy. Then we came home and made outfits. Jaden wanted to be a blue monster, Jackson insisted on being a frog and I had a princess dress Kylie could wear. They were very excited and then it started pouring rain. But out we went. Only 2 places opened the door on our street and the kids were soaked and discouraged. Then we went down one other street and they got a good load :) the boys were so excited and Kylie was adorable. Too cute and totally worth it. They are now watching Charlie Brown and the great pumpkin and eating popcorn. Still no knocks on our door....

At Long Last

First of all, I have to apologize for not getting many posts up here. I have really been having trouble with my blogger account and am considering making a change. I'll let you know if that happens.
The big announcement of this post is to say Jared has a job! It has been quite a year. He's picked up a few odds and end things here and there. I will spare you all the details of the insanity of trying some things that he has stepped forward in and haven't turned out to be what he expected.
He was offered a job at AT&T Advertising Solutions last Friday. The problem: It's in Charlotte - 3 hours from here. The following week was quite a rollercoaster. Another job presented itself in the city we are living in now and was pretty comparable. In the end we decided the AT&T job seemed best for us despite having to move. (again, I will spare you the details) We don't want to move but on the plus side my brother and his family live in Charlotte and we have several friends there as well. It's also more of a city and I think Jared will like that. So if we needed to move - I'm glad it's to Charlotte!
The job started today, Oct 3rd! So Jared went down last night and is staying with friends for the week which we are so thankful for.
You would think we would feel the pressures begin to melt away after Jared getting job, but we are actually still in quite a tough spot. At least we know it is temporary.
He will have paid training in Oct and we are glad about that - but obviously it is training and will not pay as much as he will be making in commissions. It may be a few months before many commissions come in. We shall see. I'm not quite sure how all that will work.
Here's our current situation in a nutshell so you know how to pray for us....
1) Our renters have also found themselves in a bad spot and are WAY behind on rent. (thousands of dollars) We have covered for them (this may not make sense to you without the full story) but gave them a deadline of Oct 1 to pay us which they haven't. This week we have to post a pay or vacate notice and list out house. (unless they miraculously pay us). Problem is we need the money they owe us. Right now. AND we can't continue to pay for the house with non-paying renters or with no renters and it listed for sale. We need either for them to catch up and continue to pay on time or for them to pay what they owe and then get our house sold by November. Please pray their situation comes through for them and we are paid - and quickly.
2) We can't get out of our current lease (which has 7 months left) for less than $3000 at this point. We may be able to get that lowered but it is still going to cost us money we don't have. Whatever happens we need to get it figured out because Jared leaving every week all week is not really going to work, not to mention not really affordable either.
3) We only have one car. Jared is driving it to Charlotte leaving me with no car. Not ideal. Fortunately, my parents live nearby and can help if I need something. I can also walk to the store. We do need another car though and as you can tell, can't afford it. In addition to this we are having some problems with the van and are just praying it holds together because it's all we've got :)
I could write pages and pages about everything going on in my mind and additional details of our lives right now but to be honest, I don't have the energy.
In addition to the things above please pray for our sanity and for us to trust God. He has provided for us so far and I hate that I struggle with trusting him to continue to do so.
More to come...